Tuesday, May 24, 2016
I apologize for pretty much falling off the face of the earth since my last update. It's been fairly silent on the wire across all of my social media, including Tumblr and Patreon. I do have a history of disappearing from the interwebs when Mercury goes into retrograde. Of course, beliefs may vary; I initially had very little interest or belief in astrology until Merc ret lined up so well with so many catastrophes. If Merc ret gives me peace of mind, true or not true, so be it.
That being said, when I last updated, I noted very briefly that I was diagnosed with severe major depression. Unbeknownst to me, my listlessness, exhaustion and general lack of will to do anything were symptoms of an ongoing condition likely triggered by feeling homeless and unable to control my life - a bit ironically when one of my circlemates stated that I'm probably the most adult of our circle. If I'm the most adult, god help us. But it illustrates that this feeling has likely been mostly in my head this entire time.
I'm happy to announce that the medication I was put on has been helping me immensely. It's also doing a much better job than my previous medication of managing my anxiety. I'm pretty darn ecstatic. I've felt incredibly calm and in control for the past couple of weeks. I've also been more apt to let my solid-steel wall down around my circle and let them know when shit has hit-eth the fan-eth instead of playing "Glorious Leader" (my so-dubbed nickname) and maintaining an in-control facade. Their support has made this transition back to the me I remember well in 2008 and 2009 much easier.
I'm not going to update on circle, home or familiar matters with this. That'll come at the beginning of next month like usual. I just wanted to let you know that my silence doesn't mean things aren't going well. It just means that it's been a transition and has taken some getting used to.
Please bear with me and give me a bit more time to adjust. We'll return to your regularly scheduled program shortly!
Thursday, May 5, 2016
Where do I even begin? April was incredibly hectic and so much has happened. At least I have pictures to go along with almost everything, I think. I'm going to section this update. Yes, that much has happened. Phew!
Circle of Fountains
Last month, we compiled ideas in a brainstorming activity that gave us a basic outline for our PPD ritual using post-its and categories. This month, I had everyone come to the meeting with a fully-written ritual in hand following a specific format.
We then chopped them apart...
... And puzzle-pieced them back together as one ritual written by the entire circle! Look at that!
I personally didn't participate because I will be taking this and editing it into a functioning outline. In a couple weekends, we'll be going out to the marketplace that PPD is held at to take a look around and do a rough walk-through. That'll tell us if we need to change anything based on the location. Next month, we'll be purchasing the materials and then, in the next two months, we'll have time for practice! We're definitely on the ball with this. I'm so excited for our circle to present this ritual!
April is wedding and afterprom season, which means I've been up late drawing fresh-faced newly weds and tired teenagers for over a month now. I love it though. April's one of the busiest months, but it's also when I feel the most alive because work picks up. I live for my job.
I've also been getting back to more realistic digital caricatures. When commissioned, my digital caricatures generally look like colored line work. There's nothing wrong with that, but sometimes I like to do away with the lines. Celebrities give me a chance to do that. Sadly, it took a death to inspire to the piece to the left. Seems the grim reaper has it out for a number of legendary celebrities this year.
Otherwise, things have been rather... sleepy for them. April was full of cloudy days and it was about all they could push through to get through it.
We had a rather interesting intruder the other day in the ritual area. I discovered the issue when I came down to let my dog out and found candles and pine cones scattered everywhere. I rounded the corner to this sight above.
Honestly, I expected to see a cricket or a giant spider or something under there. But nothing could brace me for the cute I was about to find.
That, ladies and gentlemen, is not a mouse. It's a vole. We've known about voles in our yard for some time, but this little guy must've slipped in the night before when I sleepily let Artie out and back in for the last time that night, likely running from our local owl population. I swear, our backyard is an episode of the National Geographic.
Never to fear: I put the cats in the litter box room, closed the door, opened the sliding glass door and coerced the little guy out with a folded umbrella. He made it out fairly unscathed (though probably thinking that he chose the worst hiding place ever).
I guess that brings me to the last point, and a rather sore one at that right now.
So you know how we're under a five-plant retrograde right now? This is pretty much what happens during those times. Yes, that's water. And it was everywhere.
Sometime overnight, the downstairs toilet randomly overflowed with clear water - don't ask me how because I still don't know. It must have overflowed for hours. I actually woke up randomly at 2 am thinking something was wrong, but I tried to force myself to go back to sleep because I had a long day of work ahead. By 4:30 am, I realized I just wasn't going to sleep for whatever reason and wondered into the kitchen for breakfast. That's when I heard what I thought was our wash machine running. Confused, I started to go downstairs when I saw the water.
We shut off the water to the lower basement and moved all the furniture out of the way with the help of circlemates. It took all morning. Then, I had to go to work. I mean, this is a picture of me from that day working at a local university.
What makes this even more of a nightmare story is that our rental company has totally neglected fixing the damage. It took them six days to come out and pull up the carpet, and they never actually removed the water.
Because they took so long to remove the carpet and it took 48 hours for the water to dry, we now have warped walls - which also presents a risk for mold.
After they removed the carpet, we have heard nothing from them since. We've called and we've tried to get in contact. Short of making the forty minute drive to show up in their office and demand they give us a time table, nothing has happened. This is what our basement currently looks like:
Guys, I'm done. I'm done fighting rental companies. So this time, I hired an attorney. Stuff like this just cannot keep happening. I'm so exhausted from it that I refuse to do this anymore.
I don't really want to discuss what's going on from there. Our lawyer has a timeline of how he plans to tackle this and we agree that it's the best course of action. I will likely have updates next month on this front - possibly sooner depending. Honestly, hiring a lawyer is pretty much the best thing we've ever done. I feel like we have this under control for the first time in our lives.
And I think that sums up just about everything! I'll update as I have updates that I can publicly give. Until next time!
Tuesday, May 3, 2016
On Sunday, May 1st, Líithi Lushede Coven held their public Beltane ritual at Waterfall Park in Independence, MO, a southeast suburb of Kansas City. While the weather had been rainy leading up to the ritual and including the day of, we received a perfect break for the celebration!
Despite the number of weddings going on this day, there was quite a turnout:
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Rituals are led by the amazing High Priestess Gwenhwyfar Wyrrd.
This year, she was joined by Æsithair Runekafi as the stand-in High Priest.
Ritual began by casting the circle using a staff, sword and flower petals.
This was followed by the calling of the quarters and the lighting of the torches in each respective direction.
The ritual began by calling upon Dionysus, the Greek God associated with fertility and wine.
Gwenhwyfar then walked the circle and talked about overindulgence and moderation.
She noted that both subjects Dionysus is associated with - alcohol and sex - can become addictions yet can also heighten the experience of life when taken in moderation. We were then asked to close our eyes and "indulge" our other senses beyond sight, an exercise in understanding the power of our own bodies. The ritual participants were treated to an indulgence of the senses, including:
A Tibetan singing bowl for hearing and a strawberry perfume scent for smell...
Feathers for touch and a piece of chocolate for taste.
Juice from a squeezed grape was then transformed into wine. This wine was used to spread blessings of creativity upon the foreheads of both the HPS and HP...
... As well as all of the participants.
Wine was then blessed and drank by Æsithair and Gwenhwyfar.
They also shared chocolate covered strawberries while juice and strawberries were passed around the circle.
After going through community announcements, the circle was closed. But the festivities didn't end there!
Gwenhwyfar gave a short tutorial on the basics of Maypole dancing and then the attendants began the dance!
Music was provided by the bard, John Mitchell!
And with that, the ritual was complete. Of course, there's always the potluck and raffle afterward. Unfortunately, I couldn't stick around as my dog was ready to go. That being said, events such as this one give a true sense of community. I encourage everyone to get out and attend events such as this in your local community!
I hope you had a blessed May Day!